I am 51 years old widowed Italian. I live here in Oulu with my Daughter, She is just 13 years old and she is all I have and I put her first in everything I do. You know what I mean? Because the kids Should always come first .. In terms of personality I am intelligent, warm-hearted, witty, kind, and somewhat of a romantic. I've got quite a good sense of humor, Which I usually feel comfortable revealing after I get to know someone, and find few things more enjoyable than laughing and making people laugh. I enjoy life and all the interesting things the world has to offer. swimming, playing golf, salsa dancing, movies, music, reading and dining out are some of my greatest pleasures. I also play the classical guitar Which I really enjoy and find it Both relaxing and challenging at the same time. I am looking for quality and heart. everything else is a bonus. I am very passionate. I listen and try to make a positive difference in the lives of everyone I meet and everyone who crosses my path. I strive for people to know I am pure in my thoughts and actions. I really want someone who will always be there for me when I need it like I would for her, listening, talking, and understanding each other as one. I'm a person who would go out of my way to make a relationship work and I hope to find That same person. I also want to find someone to grow old with in life and to spend eternity with in the after, want every moment to feel like the first. If you feel strongly about some of these things then write me to let me know and let's see what happens.